Many women like a man who takes charge in the bedroom. What happens when your man tells you he wants you to take the reins and dominate him in the bedroom? Have no fear ladies, I’m here with a step by step guide to teasing and pleasing him in the bedroom. You’ll have him on his knees in no time! The first step to being dominant is being confident. Ladies, there is nothing sexier on a woman than confidence. This may take a little practice and a mirror, but it’s well worth it.

The first step on how to dominate him in the bedroom starts with your self-confidence. This may take a little practice and a mirror, but it’s well worth it. You have to be confident in your own skin. You have to be confident taking charge and telling him what you want and what you like. You have to be confident in teasing him and giving him what he desires. So, how do you gain confidence so you can dominate him in the bedroom? Ladies, there is nothing sexier on a woman than confidence.

If he has a fantasy of being dominated by his female boss, or having his hot wife catch him with his pants down while watching porn, then play into it. If he has a stocking, silk or bondage fetish, use that to your advantage as well. The key is to find out what really gets him hot and then use that to dominate him in the bedroom. Mr. Sports Fan has a stocking and heel fetish and he loses his mind when I wear them and talk dirty to him. Now go dish out those spankings!

Fem Dom is more about the submissive person than it is the dominant one. Your partner wants to please you, in fact he desires it. So go ahead and give him what he wants by dishing out demands. Make him ask you, “Mistress May I,” before allowing him to touch or kiss any part of you. My final advice to you is to remember to have fun, relax and enjoy. You should have a safe word just in case someone isn’t enjoying themselves anymore. Now go dish out those spankings! Mistress demands it!